Load · Lead · Love — membership
Stop running the whole house from your head
Load Lead Love is a private workspace for the two adults in a family. One challenge at a time, one small 7-day plan, both of you seeing the same thing every morning.
$7.99/month
$4.99/month — Early Member Price
Lock in this price as long as you stay a member.
14 days free · then $4.99 a month — founding member price
Start my 14 free daysJoin 600+ families who are finally tackling the boring stuff — routines, structure, and the invisible load.
14 days free · no card up front · cancel yourself in two clicks
Start with a few questions. Get your first 7-day plan in minutes.
Includes the Smart Meal Planner
End the nightly “what should we eat?” debate. Tell the planner what you have at home, how much time you have, and who is responsible for dinner. It suggests kid-friendly meals, builds a shopping list, and syncs with your weekly plan.
How you get help
- 1
The Finder asks what is draining you right now
Not a quiz with a score. A short set of questions about mornings, bedtime, the invisible load, or the same fight that keeps coming back.
- 2
You build one small plan together
One change, sized for your actual family. Not ten tips. One thing to test for seven days.
- 3
Both of you answer, then compare
Private reflections first. Then you read each other's answers and decide what to try. No one is told what to do.
A planner organizes the week. Load Lead Love helps the people inside it.
Yes, it holds meals, responsibilities, reminders and family plans. That is the practical layer — and it is the smallest part.
- Load
- See who is still carrying the remembering, the planning and the follow-up — before it turns into resentment.
- Lead
- Make parenting decisions together: what needs one shared answer, and where the two of you are allowed to be different.
- Love
- A private, ongoing way to talk about what gets lost underneath all the logistics.
Most tools only ask: “What is happening this week?”
Here you also ask:
- Who is carrying it?
- Are we on the same side?
- And how are we doing inside all of this?
No lectures, no scoreboard. Just the two of you, a few minutes a week.
If any of this sounds like your week
- One of you is holding every appointment, every permission slip and every dinner decision — and it is invisible until it slips.
- You have read the books. Nothing changed, because nothing turned into a thing you actually do on a Tuesday.
- The two of you only talk about the household when something has already gone wrong.
The kind of questions it asks
These are real prompts from inside the workspace:
- Who is carrying the remembering, planning and follow-up right now?
- What usually goes wrong at the same time every day?
- How do we want the children to feel when the day ends?
How it works
- 1
Name the friction
Mornings, bedtime, homework, sibling fights, the invisible load. One thing, not ten.
- 2
Build one small change
You get a single intervention sized for the family you actually have, not an ideal one.
- 3
Run it for seven days
Short daily check-ins. Thirty seconds, not a journal. Real life gets messy and that is fine.
- 4
Review and decide
Keep it, adjust it, or drop it. Whatever you keep goes into your Family Playbook.
What you get
- A morning letter to both adults: today’s action, tonight’s dinner, who is responsible.
- One 7-day plan at a time, sized for the family you actually have.
- Smart Meal Planner that starts from what is already in your kitchen.
- A shared week view — dinners, activities, responsibilities, exportable to PDF.
- Together rounds: open questions you both answer privately, then compare side by side.
- Calendar sync into Google, Apple or Outlook, plus a home-screen app.
- The full family tool set: chores, house rules, bedtime, screen time.
- Everything in English, Swedish and German — each adult picks their own.
- Invite your partner by email; they get their own login and can use a different language.
A week inside the system
- Monday — the morning letter lands with the week ahead and today’s one action.
- Tuesday — dinner is already decided and one of you is named for it.
- Wednesday — thirty-second check-in each. Nobody writes an essay.
- Thursday — the plan holds even on the day everything runs late.
- Friday — a Together question you both answer separately, then read.
- Saturday — next week’s meals in ten minutes with a shopping list.
- Sunday — review: keep it, adjust it, or drop it and pick the next thing.
Your first 14 days
Day 1 — Answer and choose
A few questions, then pick the first challenge to work on.
Day 7 — Check in
A short review of what felt easier and what did not.
Day 14 — Decide together
Keep the plan, adjust it, or pick the next thing. Then keep going.
Your family data stays yours
Only the adults you invite can see your workspace. Private reflections stay private until you both submit.
We do not sell data and we do not use your family’s content to train models.
Cancel yourself from your account page. Your Family Playbook stays readable after you leave.
What it is not
It is not a course library, and it is not our workbooks pasted into a website. There is no feed to scroll, no badges, no streaks. Only one 7-day plan runs at a time, on purpose — because families change through one repeated small thing, not through more information.
It is also not therapy, diagnosis or crisis support. It is a self-guided, research-informed system for everyday family friction.
Honest pricing
The first 14 days are free. After that it is $4.99 a month — founding price. Regular price is $7.99, but everyone who joins now locks in the lower price for as long as they stay a member. Cancel in two clicks from your account page. If you stop, your Family Playbook stays readable — what you learned about your own family belongs to you.
Over 250 articles and the full glossary remain free for everyone, member or not. The family tools are part of the membership, free during your first 14 days. Our workbooks are still available as one-off purchases if you prefer to own a PDF.
The whole member area works in English, Swedish and German. Each adult picks their own.
Cancel anytime. No refund after the 14-day trial ends.
See our refund policy
Before you start
- What happens after the 14 free days?
- You are asked for a card. If you do nothing, the trial simply ends and nothing is charged.
- Can my partner join?
- Yes, by email invitation. They get their own login and can use a different language than you.
- Is this therapy or coaching?
- No. It is a self-guided, research-informed system for everyday family friction, not clinical support.
- How much time does it take?
- A few minutes a day. The morning letter is the whole interface on most days.
- How do I cancel?
- Two clicks on your account page, no email and no phone call. Access runs to the end of the paid period.
- Do I keep anything if I leave?
- Yes. Your Family Playbook — everything you tested and kept — stays readable to you.
Try the whole thing for two weeks
Not a limited version. The full system, both adults, all tools, no card up front.